We are bestowed with so much of positivity and we all have the equal amount of potential to do something good to the society , to our own selves and the people surrounding us . Still , why do we have the complaints of domestic violence , why can we the mother or father of some qualified person , not in his house , but in the old age home ? Why are we still lagging behind from our utmost positivity ? the main reason behind it is that we always have a perception - " Grass is greener on the either side ."
THE MAIN REASON - SENSE OF INCOMPLETENESS
First of all what drives us from within to this underestimation of our own scenario , is the sense that we are incomplete ,and at least something is missing in us. There lies the problem. We are always too much self assessors . Assessment of self is good , but judgement of situation , or the bill of benign presents , is no good for us as a person . Actually it is nowhere a true judgement , because we fix units for it as we measure any earthly thing .For example , a billionaire businessman is at a subtle level , if he measures it with his closest business contender. but for a person who does simple 150 $ work at a restaurant or something like that , he is just someone of another world. So, you should stop comparing yourself with others , as because you also have something , your standardized entity [ I mean by a group or a specific person ] does not possess.
HOW TO GET RID OF THIS INCOMPLETENESS ?
In order to get rid of this sense of incompleteness , you can try one way . First of all , chalk out whatever you want as your possession but do not have right at this moment .Then ask your friends , kith and kins about something they want , but are not bestowed with. i am quite sure that your relatives or friends miss something you experience still now. Incompleteness is one our nemesis to greatness as because a contented mind , works for you the bet and most loyal employee . So, removing it , erasing it from our lives is certainly an important thing to do .
WANT TO FILL YOURSELF UP RESOURCEFULLY ? TRY READING !
If you want to get rid of this incompleteness , try out reading .Reading is one of the most useful way to pass your time by. As a student , some of my readers may get a auto freedom of books but those who have a thorough work life can engage themselves into reading , if they have adequate time , or can listen to podcasts or audiobooks while commuting . this will activate your brain cells and thereby resolve this problem and a continuous and unnecessary comparison that wasted your time . truly saying , you will feel that you are the world and you possess everything because all of such thoughts do come in our mind due to the psychological lag our neural centers suffer from .
SOCIAL MEDIA DETOX
What follows the nuclear age in matter of science and technology is social media age , which actively participated in growing our civilization from last decade . But it is the place where most of the people like to share the rosiest picture possible so that they are rewarded with something quite fake - Likes , comments and shares . they always are in a hurry to portray that they are in the best situation every way possible . this creates a sense of depression created due to comparison . sometime in the mind , a vibe comes , he or she doesn't deserve it , whereas I can . I have more potential . Hence , we should go by the detox so as to refrain ourselves from this depression game. From this , we will again splash on the filth of mere like-share-comment game. This is an illusive cycle and it is better to get rid of it. Decrease amount of people to chat with because it helps you in no way , even the person you chat with , as because both of you are wasting the time of refinement and streaming negativity through high radiation the aura emits .
MEDITATION
After you attain a basic harmony and order in your thoughts , you should go by meditation . Meditation is the very way that leads to cleansing of all your thoughts in each and every level of thinking . The procedure is to simply sit and let all good and bad thoughts freely flow in your mind . finally , after a thorough practice you will receive and resonate a void for the good thoughts made by elimination of bad . This will also heal your chakras and you will feel better and proceed towards third eye activation and thereby spiritual enhancement .I have a blog fully on its basic processes [ LINK ]
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