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Self Love and Its Requirement

WHAT IS SELF LOVE? 

The definition of being a good  person nowadays is somewhat a bit weird and the only way to be so is to be selfless and do not take care of ownself. So what is the meaning of being selfless? Does it mean not to think about  ownself? Is it so? Does it mean that loving ownself is a bad deed and you always have to overlook your true self and focus on the people you are surrounded with? 

Here is the place the entire social structure fails. Self Love is never a bad thing to relish rather in order to achieve something, or even if you do something for others, you should have a self love.

WHAT MISTAKE DO WE MAKE IN LOVING THE SELF? 

We mistake at a point when we try to love ownself. We love us on the assumptions we do take  , and quite warmly accept from the others words. A famous quotation of Arnold Schwarzenegger says , which is also the second rule among his 6 rules of success is that - “ Don't listen to the naysayers ” .  These are the people of first category,  the naysayers, who will pull your leg the hardest in your hardest times. The second do come flatterers. When you reach the pinnacle of success, name and fame, they are always at your service, who always give you complement even in an unappreciable job  . So don't assume lesser or more than yourself on basis of their words. They are the most deceiving characters you will ever confront. So, self love should be innate feeling   rather  than a feeling controlled by some people who are quite insignificant in your life purpose. 

CAN SELF LOVE HAMPER US IF WE ARE DEVOTED TO OTHERS' SERVICE? 

It is the greatest fear anyone had who is a big helping hand to others, an amateur social worker , who had made participation in social work activities a mission of life, even though entangled with other occupation. I nthese terms self love is a broader term that encircles him and his  altogether . So, loving yourself , projecting yourself and yours is not bad of that sorg we think. Social stature , ideology all of these may hinder, but if our mind is apt enough to distinguish between opportunism and self love , seeking help, it may be easier and happier for us to live, managing both the worlds and if  you you have two strong legs to stand on, then helping others will be more enjoyable and blissful rather than burning like an incense stick for them. 

IF STARTED TODAY, HOW MUCH TIME IT TAKES TO DEVELOP ? 

Dear reader(s) , always remember that self love is hidden within us. We frustrate , depress and cry for we want ourselves at the top, at the best of all, and here is your self love in a mystic disguise. Anti depressant pills, sleeping pills  , dark nights of insomnia, all these are nothing ; tension, stress , fear, all these are ththe clear cut manifestations our self love, urge of survival, the primordial instinct we have .  Look at the mirror atleast 5 minutes a day. Not in sign of hatred, you have never hate yourself, outer world make you to do, give you self 5 minutes in the 1440 minutes of  day to look at mirror, ask him / her : “ How are you friend? Are you keeping well? ”  Talk to him/ her loudly . If possible lock the room and talk —  cry to it, laugh with it, share happiest moments of the day , sometimes vocal speech h is a better cure to these and way to SELF LOVE .... 

Hope you liked it! Start this from today! Comment below if it made a bit of change  in your mindset.Have a better journey of life ahead!! 
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