Thoughster's Blog

We are bestowed with so much of positivity and we all have the equal amount of potential to do something good to the society , to our own selves and the  people surrounding us . Still , why do we have the complaints of domestic violence , why can we the mother or father of some qualified person , not in his house , but in the old age home ? Why are we still lagging behind from our utmost positivity ? the main reason behind it is that we always have a perception - "  Grass is greener on the either side . " THE MAIN REASON - SENSE OF INCOMPLETENESS First of all what drives us from within to this underestimation of our own scenario ,  is the sense that we are incomplete ,and at least something is missing in us.   There lies the problem. We are always too much self assessors . Assessment of self is good , but judgement of situation , or the bill of benign presents , is no good for us as a person . Actually it is nowhere a true judgement , because we fix units for it as w...

What is the WINTER ? How does it affect us?  In this world one of our main purposes is to spread positivity and happiness as much as possible. Unfortunately, Or may be fortunately, we are made hard and endurable  by adding impurities into us and so we cannot serve the purposes quite efficiently we do think of doing. So, what should be do then?Moreover, we are very much affected by the surrounding and that creates a barrier in path of ascension sometimes. Here, I will tell you how to isolate, Or attempt to isolate your mind from any possible provocation or distraction and continue the journey of ascension.  Let your inner flower bloom to the fullest!  All of us,we do possess and conceal an inner flower within each of us that is not properly watered most of the time. We waste our time treating the flowers in the garden, which others can see, we forget watering that flower inside the house, that does not even lead sunlight, but of course, dies if...

In our lives, there is a severe requirement for metamorphosis, or change of our form from one to the other. We are all very much prone to hazards, challenges, even luxury, amenities and happiness. Actually, metamorphosis  refers to a biological process of changing  forms - One to the other. Here, what I am talking about is not the biological process. It is the changing forms  of own personality, from one to a better one, and thereby transforming ownself to a better version of you.  METAMORPHOSIS - HOW DOES IT  CHANGE OUR LIVES ?  Friends , metamorphosis is a symbol of continual change.  Many of us get stuck into some pain, or distress of past, get stuck into some habits of past , which may not always give you tangible pain, but may prove poisonous to you in long term. So, metamorphosis is required to shed of that skin , that skin that has all does immaturities, all wrong steps, misdecisions and brings you to paradise of newness.  IS ME...

While I was thinking about how we can stop the chain of dependences we have, something quite interesting came in my mind, that is the concept of Self help cycle. Self help is not helping yourself doing something  . This is about let yourself, your soul do something that is totally out of the box and requires your effort to let you overcome your hindrances and be successful in your life journey.  The Main Help Of Self Help Cycle - Motivation The main  usage of self help cycle is coming out of a pain , agony or any situation when your self esteem is dropped to the bottommost point possible. So how can I use it?  First of all, start a interrogation   with yourself.  THE FIRST QUESTION that you  should ask yourself - “ Why am I in this situation ? ” and initially there may be two of the extremes answers to the question. The first one is - “ they did it ” or “ Me, the fool, did it ” . None of them are good as blaming to anyone is unhealthy...

WHAT IS SELF LOVE?  The definition of being a good   person nowadays is somewhat a bit weird and the only way to be so is to be selfless and do not take care of ownself. So what is the meaning of being selfless? Does it mean not to think about  ownself? Is it so? Does it mean that loving ownself is a bad deed and you always have to overlook your true self and focus on the people you are surrounded with?  Here is the place the entire social structure fails. Self Love is never a bad thing to relish rather in order to achieve something, or even if you do something for others, you should have a self love. WHAT MISTAKE DO WE MAKE IN LOVING THE SELF?  We mistake at a point when we try to love ownself. We love us on the assumptions we do take  , and quite warmly accept from the others words. A famous quotation of Arnold Schwarzenegger says , which is also the second rule among his 6 rules of success  is that - “ Don't listen to the naysayers...

Each and everyone of us requires a dream a goal to achieve and that is the main driving force behind all. But the question arises here, are we setting our goals in the correct manner ? Because we should set our goals in a tangible manner, so that the goal may be reached in the stipulated time by optimum level of hardwork, correct modus operandi and planning. First of all, we should chalk out in pen or paper what should be the mode of action for the goal to be reached and remember, it should not be something that is inflated or bolstered by your self confidence only, rather situational security is also a great requirement for that and the questioning must be of this form -  1. What  2. When and  3. How?  These three questions should be supplied with a satisfactory answer, and then only you should start to chase after a goal.  Why not to say " Why " ?  I ignored and omitted the question why , because the very question is not  applicable for...